Whenever I "fail" at something, I tend to beat myself up. When I make a list of things to accomplish in a week and I don't do them all, it's like I have a big fat F on my planner. Which is dumb. There are things that I have to do, sure. There are appointments that must be kept and activities that happen every day. But when I make a list of "would be nice" and don't get to them? That's when "grace" needs to happen. I am not a perfect human being, by any stretch. And honestly, sometimes … [Read more...] about I’m learning to show myself grace
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The art of self-acceptance and letting go
Acceptance. I’ve struggled with this word for most of my adult life, especially when it comes to self-acceptance. At 40 years old, I’m really trying to accept myself as-is. I’m attempting to become one with my strengths and weaknesses, to really know who I am. But self-acceptance isn't a box you check, and then walk away from. It's more of a quest...full of sunny days and thunderstorms at night. Self-acceptance isn't about "accepting" all that's in front of you - it's about … [Read more...] about The art of self-acceptance and letting go
5 tips for reclaiming your mojo
Let's face it. Winter is a TOUGH season for a lot of people. It's dark. There are many days you can't get outside. It rains. It snows. By the time spring rolls around, your pep is gone. It's flown the coop and you're not sure how to get it back. Well, have no fear. I'm here to tell you that you will find it again. It just takes a little bit of effort. Every year in March, I've found I've written a similar blog post. I'm tired, overwhelmed and unmotivated. It's a cycle, which means that … [Read more...] about 5 tips for reclaiming your mojo